When It’s Okay to Say No: Advocating for Your Child

Saying yes to every therapy or service offered isn't a requirement of being a good parent. Autism supports should have meaningful goals, be individualized, and consider the child and family's needs. This resource explores situations where it may be reasonable to pause, ask questions, request changes, seek another provider, or say no. 

Infographic explaining when parents may consider saying no to an autism therapy or service, including concerns about fit, goals, burden, and their child's well-being.

What you'll learn

  • Why you don't have to automatically accept every service offered

  • Questions to ask about a therapy's goals and purpose

  • When a therapy may not be a good fit

  • Why your child's comfort and well-being matter

  • When it's reasonable to request changes or a different provider

  • How to advocate for your child's needs

  • Why saying no to one service doesn't mean saying no to support altogether

Quick Tip: Ask: “What is the goal, how will we know if it's helping, and what happens if we decide it isn't working?” A good care team should be willing to discuss those questions with you.

Disclaimer: This resource is for general educational purposes only and is not medical, legal, or professional advice. Decisions about therapies and services should consider the individual child's needs, goals, safety, preferences, and circumstances. When appropriate, discuss concerns and alternatives with your child's healthcare or therapy team. 


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